Living with a girl is, at times, a pleasant thought and more often a mind-freaking prospect.
At times, I think that marriage is a mating of mind, body and soul but more often it strikes me that, its an additional responsibility, an end of freedom and a deeper hole in the pocket!!!
So coming back to the question my sister asked me......I avoided the subject for around 6 months or so. Today she questioned me again. The same question. Repeatedly.
She got the same answer, again. Repeatedly. I told her, that I didnt know and have'nt thought about it. I might have told a lot of fibs as a youngster....but what I told her today was true. Reality was, I had'nt given it a thought. How can I? I'm a busy man. Get up late in the morning. Reach the office late. Work for a stupid boss all day. Come home, go to the gym, meet up friends and / or party, come home again, have food, sleep. How do I really think about such things? So I decided to write it and ask my sister to go through this post.....so she'll be happy before she goes off to the United States (our next meet might be 2 years later).......So here goes....
I'd like to be with someone who is simple, generally intelligent and has a fair degree of understanding. Not simple as in simpleton. Simple as in, one who has a simple thought process. I have observed that some people have complex mindsets and huge egos. Since I dont have a big ego (no, I dont, no sarcasm in this!!!).....so shouldnt the girl. Understanding and pretty much practical people make a world.
Education......should be a graduate, wouldnt mind a commerce graduate, I am not very good at finance, so should be able to complement this factor well.
Should be fairly homely and fairly adventurous and generally easy going (not over-ambitious). Should like to try anything new. She could be very talkative or just talkative or fairly talkative, but not a very silent type. There should be something in her due to which I am instantly attracted to her. (Another dream? hahahaha!!! My sides are literally splitting as I write this!!)
Looks wise.....Should be cute looking, not very beautiful, not very ugly, just plain cute (The definition of cute varies from person to person....so excuse me.), beautiful shoulder length hair and eyes like demi moore's!!! (Hahahaha!! I am a dreamer!!! In short, I should find her interesting!!)
I know, that all these things are difficult to judge in someone, whom you have met only once or twice (normally that is what happens in arranged marriages!!), but anyway, these are my thoughts, my answers to my sister's question and I hope that tommorow when I make her read this post she is happy!!!
